Transplant: Kidney, 1992
Hometown: Manila, Philippines
Joel's Story (in his own words): HOPE. This was the word that kept me from letting go and simply dying. Hope meant to keep living in desperation yet humming in the darkness, for really, I was in darkness. I questioned God. Why me? But only silence answered me. Yet, there was still hope within me. Hoping was knowing that there was love. And this hope saved me.
The year, 1988 was very memorable. I graduated from college and was privileged to travel abroad for free. All the while, I was not aware that even then I was sick. My kidneys were failing and it was just a matter of time before I finally succumbed to the disease. In June 1991, with blurred vision and a blood pressure of 240/200, I was rushed to the hospital. The diagnosis: ESRD. The recommendation: immediate dialysis. I lost my job. Eight months on dialysis was a nightmare. I was slowly being drained physically and financially. My only chance was a kidney transplantation. But who would have the heart to donate a kidney for me?
Then, God broke His silence. He sent light into the darkness and rewarded my hope. My brother Roy had the heart. He had the heart to give part of himself so that I may live. He gave his kidney. On March 12, 1992, the successful transplantation was performed. My second life began, a life so different, so much more meaningful. Today, I cherish every day, every hour, appreciating everything more than ever. While before I lived only for myself, I now find joy in living and working for others. My days are filled with activities. Today, my life is truly fulfilled. How I wish that all those on dialysis would not lose hope that they, too, can have the chance to live a similar, second fulfilled life. Just like mine. It only takes complete trust in God.
My Message to the World: How I wish that all those on dialysis would not lose hope that they, too, can have the chance to live a similar, second fulfilled life. Just like mine. It only takes complete trust in God.
Return
to XI World Transplant Games Page
Last modified:
11 May 2000